Showing posts with label couples. Show all posts
Showing posts with label couples. Show all posts

Saturday, June 20, 2026

What is the piece of advice you would like to give to married couples?

 I counsel couples, I hear many stories from them summarising and sharing my two cents for peaceful happy married life.

  1. Remember you are in bond - You’re sharing life, anything or everything you do it has impact on both of your lives, your family. Just literally treat your spouse as your physical other half, keep practicing this, this will solve all your problems.
  2. Never try to win the argument - Instead win the heart of your spouse. Sometimes by calm, sometimes by compromise, sometimes by adjustment, sometimes by a step backward. Don’t take these are negative emotions, these are the great building blocks for relationship. They help you more than love and sex.
  3. Be a good listener - Everybody talks, but matured person learns the art of listening, processing, understanding after that acting on it.
  4. Respect - You never let down your spouse with disrespect. Even if the world is against him/her, if you treat your partner with respect, that one thing decides the longevity and healthiness of your relationship.
  5. Treatment - Never take your spouse as granted. Every emotion you show, it will have huge impact on her/him. He/She is a living being but not a machine / tool. Never ever let down your spouse by any means.
  6. Pain in the ass - It’s okay if you are not behind your spouse success, but never be behind their tears / hurt.
  7. The great way to measure love - One when you are feeding food, Two when you are in intimate love making.
  8. Measure your sexual bond - The no of sexual encounters in a month matters. Unfortunately it is < 10times per month for most of the couples. Those who ensures > 20times leads with a great loving, understanding bond.
  9. Conversation is the key - At any point of time make sure, you both are having a bond, where you can share, discuss, think together then come to an understanding how to proceed. To happen this conversation is the key.
  10. The relationship should not be like a TV and Remote, but it should be like Plug and Hole. Though it looks funny, it has a deep meaning. Like how an adapter solves the fitting problems, The bond has to adapt to any gaps in life. Hence the current called harmony flows.

Saturday, March 14, 2026

Which are the weirdest onscreen couples in Bollywood?

 These couples are definitely some of the weirdest onscreen Bollywood couples in my opinion.

(1) Kamal Rashid Khan and Gracv Singh in Deshdrohi

This beautiful actresss from the movie lagaan was paired along with our very own "superstar" KRK. I mean what on earth was the maker of Deshdrohi thinking while selecting the female lead. their chemistry was weird to say the least.

(2) Vivek Sudarshan and Sayali Bhagat in Impatient Vivek.

It felt very weird to see them together.The pair in this movie are one of the creepiest bollywood onscreen couples you will ever see. I mean just look at his facial expression in the movie . It seems like that he had never seen girls in his entire lifetime until he met her in the movie.No wonder, the movie tanked.

(3)Manoj Kumar and Rekha in Clerk (1989)

Manoj Kumar was a great actor in his prime but this pairing of him with Rekha was a crime for the viewers.The age factor is to big between both of the but this is one of those rare onscreen couples i have found to be creepy and disturbing .

(4) Uday Chopra and Tanisha Mukherjee in Neal n Niki

(5)Mimoh Chakroborty and Vivana in Jimmy (2008)