A DAD’S SPEECH TO HIS SON-IN-LAW AT THE WEDDING

I thought I would start my speech by addressing you as the “new” family of my daughter. But I think it would be inappropriate because now that she is married, you are “the family” for her. Believe me; I don’t have a problem with that. I, in fact, want my daughter to have “you” as her priority now. Its time for us to take a backseat in her life. We would happily accept it but would surely request one thing- please keep her happy!

 

I am more than sure that you will keep her very happy. She will perhaps be happier than what she used to be here. But like all fathers, I obsess over my daughter’s happiness which is making me say this over and over again- please keep her happy!

 

She never was and will never be a burden for me. She is in fact the reason why I breathe and smile. I am getting her married because this is what the law of nature demands. I am helpless in the face of our culture and therefore sending her to your home. She was the happiness of my home and will now light up your home. I am giving my world to you. Please make sure it remains beautiful. I am giving away my princess to you. Please make sure she stays as a queen. I have raised her with my sweat and blood and now she is wonderfully perfect. For all the care, love, beauty and warmth my daughter will bring into your lives, I just want her happiness in return—please keep her happy!

 

If at times you think that my daughter has said or done something wrong, feel free to scold her. But handle her with love. She is very fragile. If at times she feels low, be with her. She just needs a little bit of your attention. If at times she feels sick, show her some care. It’s the medicine that works best for her. If at times she fails to fulfill a responsibility, feel free to chastise her. But empathize with her. She is still learning. Do understand her—please keep her happy!

 

I don’t mind if I don’t get to see her for months. I don’t mind if I am not able to talk to her on a daily basis. I would be more than happy if she doesn’t remember me much. But, my only motive in life has been my daughter’s happiness which is now in your hands. I beg you, please keep her happy.

 

Dear son-in-law, these words may not mean much to you now but if you are lucky enough to father a daughter someday, you will appreciate them better when you will find every beat of your heart shouting – “please keep her happy”!

Cancer Treatment - Living Legend Narayana Murthy

Narayana Murthy, no, we are not talking about our well known IT czar from Benagluru, but this lesser known person from the same state, Karnataka, India, excels in helping thousands of patients ailing from different diseases, from kidney stones to heart diseases to different kinds of cancers.

Popularly known as Vaidya Narayana Murthy, around 60 years of age, is from a small village called Narasipura which is around 50 km from Shimoga, Karnataka, India.

Murthy, basically a brahmin farmer, carries the age-old tradition of Ayruvedic treatment with the help of some NGOs. Every Sundays and Thursdays people from various parts of Southern India start to queue up in front of his house early in the morning. With the help from his family and aides, Murthy serves his patients. On these days, he treats around 600 to 700 patients troubled by different diseases.

Murthy listens intently for a minute or two before disposing medicines for 15 to 30 days depending on the ailment for free of cost. The source of his medicines is primarily from different kinds of plants and herbs which he personally collects from forest during particulars days of the week (woody stems, roots, and barks). The patient needs to take these medicines with specific dietary instructions. Sometimes Murthy asks for certain lab reports if the patient is carrying. Narayana Murthy is the last ray of hope for many terminally ill patients suffering from cancer, heart diseases, and respiratory problems. It is not mandatory for the patient to come to collect the medicine. Relatives or friends can also collect the medicine fortnightly or monthly with lab reports or signs and symptoms of the illness.

Murthy’s expertise in treating cancer, kidney stones, and heart block has left everyone astonished. With just a day’s worth of prescription gives unbelievable results for heart blocks and kidney stones.

His treatment for certain kinds of cancer has yielded excellent results. These patients need to take 6-8 months of treatment, but certainly has been very effective.

There are as many as 15 NGOs working with Murthy in this noble cause. Now, it has been more than 25 years Murthy started serving the people. He has never expected anything in return, and he has never sought any attention or publicity.

In the age of globalization and the allopathic mode of treatment for every disease, some taking up the task of helping thousands of people without any expectation is highly commendable. For diseases like cancer and coronary artery disease, the comman man cannot afford to have a good treatment due to lack of healthcare insurance availability.

You can reach Shimoga from Bangalore via bus or train, around 280 km. From Shimoga, you can reach Narasipura by public or private transport.

No prior appointment or any sort of contact required to see Murthy. Service is provided on first-come-first-serve basis starting early morning 7 every Sundays and Thursdays.

I am updating a few things on this day, May 19, 2012, regarding this page. I am glad that many are finding this information useful. At the same time, please note the following.

Mr. Muthy can be reached by phone, but he is a very busy person serving hundreds of patients, so it is not fair expecting him to call back anyone. Treatment is absolutely free and provided on first-come-first-serve basis starting early morning 7 every Sundays and Thursdays.

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Brain Damaging Habits

 

1.No Breakfast.
People who do not take breakfast are going to have a lower blood sugar level. This leads to an insufficient supply of nutrients to the brain causing brain degeneration.

2.Overeating. It causes hardening of the brain arteries, leading to a decrease in mental power.

 

3.Smoking. It causes multiple brain shrink age and may lead to Alzheimer disease.

 

4.High Sugar consumption. 
Too much sugar will interrupt the absorption of proteins and nutrients causing malnutrition and may interfere with brain development.

 

5.Air Pollution. 
The brain is the largest oxygen consumer in our 20 body. Inhaling polluted air decreases the supply of oxygen to the brain, bringing about a decrease in brain efficiency.

 

6.Sleep Deprivation. 
Sleep allows our brain to rest... Long term deprivation from sleep will accelerate the death of brain cells...

 

7.Head covered while sleeping. 
Sleeping with the head covered increases the concentration of carbon dioxide and decrease concentration of oxygen that may lead to brain damaging effects.

8.Working your brain during illness. 
Working hard or studying with sickness may lead to a decrease in effectiveness of the brain as well as damage the brain.

 

9.Lacking in stimulating thoughts. 
Thinking is the best way to train our brain, lacking in brain stimulation thoughts may cause brain shrinkage. 

 

10.Talking Rarely. 
Intellectual conversations will promote the efficiency of the brain.

ಜಾತಿ

ಜಗತ್ತಿನಲ್ಲಿ ಇರುವುದು  ಎರಡೇ ಜಾತಿ ಜಾತಿ  ಗಂಡು-ಹೆಣ್ಣು ಎನ್ನುತಾರೆ ಎಲ್ಲಾ  ಆದರು ಈ ಜನರೇಕೆ  ಜಾತಿ- ಜಾತಿ ಎಂದು  ಜಾತಿಯ ಮೋಹದಲ್ಲಿ ಬಿದ್ದು ಒದ್ದಾಡ...

MahaKshatriya : Ee bhoomi bannada buguri kannada lyrics

Film : MahaKshatriya

Actors : Vishnuvardhan,Ram kumar,Sudharani
Singer : S P B


ಈ ಭೂಮಿ ಬಣ್ಣದ ಬುಗುರಿ
ಆ ಶಿವನೇ ಚಾಟಿ ಕಣೋ
ಈ ಬಾಳು ಸುಂದರ ನಗರಿ
ನೀನಿದರ ಮೇಟಿ ಕಣೋ

ನಿಂತಾಗ ಬುಗುರಿಯ ಆಟ
ಎಲ್ಲಾರು ಒಂದೆ ಓಟ
ಕಾಲ ಕ್ಷಣಿಕ ಕಣೋ

ಈ ಭೂಮಿ ಬಣ್ಣದ ಬುಗುರಿ
ಆ ಶಿವನೇ ಚಾಟಿ ಕಣೋ
ಈ ಬಾಳು ಸುಂದರ ನಗರಿ
ನೀನಿದರ ಮೇಟಿ ಕಣೋ

ಮರಿಬೇಡ ತಾಯಿಯ ಋಣವ
ಮರಿಬೇಡ ತಂದೆಯ ಒಲವ
ಹಡೆದವರೇ ದೈವ ಕಣೋ
ಸುಖವಾದ ಬಾಷೆಯ ಕಲಿಸೊ
ಸರಿಯಾದ ದಾರಿಗೆ ನೆಡೆಸೊ
ಸಂಸ್ಕೃತಿಯೇ ಗುರುವು ಕಣೋ

ಮರೆತಾಗ ಜೀವನ ಪಾಠ
ಕೊಡುತಾನೆ ಚಾಟಿಯ ಏಟ
ಕಾಲ ಕ್ಷಣಿಕ ಕಣೋ

ಈ ಭೂಮಿ ಬಣ್ಣದ ಬುಗುರಿ
ಆ ಶಿವನೇ ಚಾಟಿ ಕಣೋ
ಈ ಬಾಳು ಸುಂದರ ನಗರಿ
ನೀನಿದರ ಮೇಟಿ ಕಣೋ

ಮರಿಬೇಡ ಮಗುವಿನ ನಗುವ
ಕಳಿಬೇಡ ನಗುವಿನ ಸುಖವ
ಭರವಸೆಯೇ ಮಗುವು ಕಣೇ

ಕಳಬೇಡ ಕೊಲ್ಲಲು ಬೇಡ
ನೀ ಹಾಡು ಶಾಂತಿಯ ಹಾಡ
ಜೀವನವೇ ಪ್ರೀತಿ ಕಣೋ

ನಿಂತಾಗ ಬುಗುರಿಯ ಆಟ
ಎಲ್ಲಾರು ಒಂದೆ ಓಟ
ಕಾಲ ಕ್ಷಣಿಕ ಕಣೋ

ಈ ಭೂಮಿ ಬಣ್ಣದ ಬುಗುರಿ
ಆ ಶಿವನೇ ಚಾಟಿ ಕಣೋ
ಈ ಬಾಳು ಸುಂದರ ನಗರಿ
ನೀನಿದರ ಮೇಟಿ ಕಣೋ

Nyaya Neethi Moorthivetha Satya Daivave ( ನ್ಯಾಯ ನೀತಿ ಮೂರ್ತಿವೆತ್ತ ಸತ್ಯ ಧೈವವೇ)

ವಂದೇ ಶಂಭು ಉಮಾಪತಿಮ್ ಸುರಗುರುಮ್

ವಂದೇ ಜಗತ್ ಕಾರಣಂ
ವಂದೇ ಪನ್ನಗ ಭೂಷಣಮ್ ಮೃಗಧರಮ್
ವಂದೇ ಪಶುನಾಮ್ ಪತಿಮ್
ವಂದೇ ಸೂರ್ಯ ಶಶಂಕ್ ವನ್ನಿ ನಯನಮ್
ವಂದೇ ಮುಕುಂದಪ್ರಿಯಮ್
ವಂದೇ ಭಕ್ತ ಜನಾಶ್ರಯನ್ಚ ವರದಮ್
ವಂದೇ ಶಿವಮ್ ಶಂಕರಮ್

ನ್ಯಾಯ ನೀತಿ ಮೂರ್ತಿವೆತ್ತ ಸತ್ಯ ಧೈವವೇ
ಮಹಾಮಹಿಮ ಮಂಜುನಾಥ ನಮೋ ಎನುವೆ
ಭೂಮಿಗಿಳಿದ ಕೈಲಾಸ ನಿನ್ನ ಸನ್ನಿಧಿ
ನೇತ್ರಾವತಿ ನದಿ ಇದುವೆ ಆ ಸುರನದಿ

ನ್ಯಾಯ ನೀತಿ ಮೂರ್ತಿವೆತ್ತ ಸತ್ಯ ಧೈವವೇ
ಮಹಾಮಹಿಮ ಮಂಜುನಾಥ ನಮೋ ಎನುವೆ

ಧರ್ಮಪಾಲಾ ದಯಶೀಲ ಮಂಜುನಾಥನೆ
ನಿನ್ನ ಚರಣ ಸೇವೆ ನಮ್ಮ ಗುರಿಯ ಸಾಧನೆ
ಕಾಳರಾತ್ರಿ ಕಾಳರಾಹು ಕುಮಾರಸ್ವಾಮಿಗೆ
ನೇಮದಿಂದ ನಮಿಸುವೆವು ಹೆಜ್ಜೆಹೆಜ್ಜೆಗೆ

ನ್ಯಾಯ ನೀತಿ ಮೂರ್ತಿವೆತ್ತ ಸತ್ಯ ಧೈವವೇ
ಮಹಾಮಹಿಮ ಮಂಜುನಾಥ ನಮೋ ಎನುವೆ

ಅನ್ನಪ್ಪ ಗುರುವೆ ನಿನ್ನಗೆ ಶರಣು ಏನುವೆ
ನಿನ್ನ ರಕ್ಷೆ ಇರಲು ನಾನು ಎಲ್ಲ ಗೆಲುವೆ
ನ್ಯಾಯ ಮಾರ್ಗದಲ್ಲಿ ನೆಡೆದು ಧನ್ಯನಾಗುವೆ
ಧರ್ಮ ನನ್ನ ಕಾಯಲೆಂದು ಸದ ಬೇಡುವೆ

ನ್ಯಾಯ ನೀತಿ ಮೂರ್ತಿವೆತ್ತ ಸತ್ಯ ಧೈವವೇ
ಮಹಾಮಹಿಮ ಮಂಜುನಾಥ ನಮೋ ಎನುವೆ

ಧರ್ಮವನು ರಕ್ಷಿಸುವ ಶಕ್ತಿ ನೀಡು
ನಿನ್ನ ನಂಬಿ ಬಾಳುವ ಭಕ್ತಿ ನೀಡು
ಸತ್ಯವೆ ಗೆಲುವ ನ್ಯಾಯ ನೀಡು
ನಮ್ಮ ಮನದ ಗುಡಿಯಲ್ಲಿ ವಾಸ ಮಾಡು

ನ್ಯಾಯ ನೀತಿ ಮೂರ್ತಿವೆತ್ತ ಸತ್ಯ ಧೈವವೇ
ಮಹಾಮಹಿಮ ಮಂಜುನಾಥ ನಮೋ ಎನುವೆ
ಭೂಮಿಗಿಳಿದ ಕೈಲಾಸ ನಿನ್ನ ಸನ್ನಿಧಿ
ನೇತ್ರಾವತಿ ನದಿ ಇದುವೆ ಆ ಸುರನದಿ
ನ್ಯಾಯ ನೀತಿ ಮೂರ್ತಿವೆತ್ತ ಸತ್ಯ ಧೈವವೇ
ಮಹಾಮಹಿಮ ಮಂಜುನಾಥ ನಮೋ ಎನುವೆ

Top 5 Foods to Cure your Migraine Headache Fast

The Migraine Headache is a common health disorder now a days, People tends to take Pills to overcome this which in general not a wise decision to make. There are some Natural Foods that cure this, which should be considered before taking any medication

The Migraine was caused because of interactions between Vascular and Nervous System, sometimes it may also alterations in Brain Cells. It often lead to Nausea, Vomiting too.

There are some foods that can trigger the Migraine, and Some Cure the Migraine. Let us know about the Top 5 Foods that cure your Migraine Headache Fast

1) Coffee

If Coffee can be taken in some moderate amounts, it will relieve Headache. So Before Thinking about Pill, Have a Cup of Coffee and Sleep well to Get Rid of Migraine

2) Ginger

Ginger possess anti-bacterial properties which can eliminate migraine, add some Ginger to your food. It will certainly cure your Migraine Headache

3) Red Wine

Red wine possess an Anti-acid  called Tyramine where it is also Found in Beer.A Glass of Red Wine will certainly help you to get rid of Migraine Headache

4) Broccoli

The Broccoli is a Rich Green Vegetable with Lot of Magnesium. Eat Boiled Broccoli with some Cayenne Pepper to eliminate the Migraine from your body

5) Fish

Sea Foods normally contains good amounts of Omega 3 Fatty acids and Vitamins which obviously cures migraine. Omega 3 fatty acids will reduce the level of Inflammation that is caused by Migraine

Different meanings of Life

Meaning of life is different for everyone. You can see it in your neighborhood.

• One believes in success.
• One believes to have someone in his life then only life can get completed.
• One has quest for the divine.
• One believes in earning only.
• One believes in earning and spending on his aspirations.

Depending what do we want? What can quench our thirst? What can complete us? What can take us to stand at the pinnacle of happiness?

Most of us have no clue what we want to do with our lives. Even after we finish school, even after we get a job , even after we start making money, we fail to clearly define what we want from this life.

It’s a struggle almost every adult goes through in life. “What do I want to do with my life” ?”What I’m passionate about”?

Because there are so many answers to this question, it’s important to find that resonates us like , some say :—

• The meaning of life is to be happy,

• The meaning of life is to be at peace with yourself,

• The meaning of life is developing feeling of contentment ,

• The meaning of life is serving humanity,

• The meaning of life is to leave legacy,

• The meaning of life is to love others,

• The meaning of life is to create your own meaning,

• The meaning of life is to make a positive difference,

• The meaning of life is to have a variety of experiences,

• The meaning of life is to find something important enough to justify sufferings .

I mean , the concept for “meaning of life” is endless, people interpreting things as per their wisdom & thoughts , making spirituality a complex ,conflicting , chaotic & mysterious experience in itself.

Part of the problem is the concept of “life meaning ”itself . The idea that we’re each born for some higher purpose & now it’s our cosmic mission to find it is the shitty logic used to justify things.

People come to wonder about the meaning of life for a number of different reasons.

May be they are inherently curious, or they have recently experienced a family tragedy, may be they’re questioning their faith or they are going through a depression or pressures in life & are looking for a renewed sense of meaning to escape the sufferings.

So, when people say, “what should I do with life”? or “what’s the meaning of life” ? What they are actually asking is” What can I do with my time that’s important?”

This is definitely a better question to ask. It’s far more manageable & it doesn’t have all the ridiculous baggage that the “ life meaning ” question demands.

There’s no reason for us to be contemplating the cosmic significance of our life while sitting on a couch all day eating potatoes.

Rather we should get off our ass & discover what feels important to us & go for it.Basically discovering meaning in our lives should be something that’s fun & interesting & not a chore.

Truth is , we exist on this planet for some determined period of time & we do things during the time available to us .Some of these are important & Some are not.

The important things that we do gives our lives meaning & happiness while the unimportant ones just kill time.

Everything sucks, some of the time.Everything involves some sort of struggle & sacrifice . There’s is no free lunch on earth. Nothing is goody- goody all the time.

It’s our ability to handle our struggles, the rough patches of our life, our tolerance threshold that determines the person that we become ultimately.

Suppose we want to become a brilliant doctor or a lawyer or a tech entrepreneur or a professional artist but we can’t handle failure, embarrassment,if we can’t stand 90 hrs work week then definitely we’re not going to make it far.

What unpleasant experiences in life we are capable of handling, make us what we become in future.

If you avoid anything that embarrass you, then you are done away with instantly. It all comes back to vulnerability.

Living a life avoiding embarrassment is akin to living a life with your head in the sand .

Great things are , by their very nature, unique & unconventional. To achieve them , we must go against the herd mentality. And to do that is scary but do it .

Find a problem you care about & start solving it. What most people fail to understand is that the passion is the result of action, not the cause of it.

Discovering what you are passionate about in life & what matters to you is a trial & error process.

We exactly don’t know how it feels to do the activity until we actually do the activity.

Most of us don’t like thinking about death. It freaks us out. But thinking about our own death surprisingly has a lot of practical advantages.

One of those is it forces us to zero in on what’s actually important in our lives & what’s just frivolous & distracting.

Ultimately death only gives us perspective on the value of our life.

Because it’s only by imagining our non-existence that we can get a sense of what’s most important about our existence & hence meaning of our life.

When people have no sense of direction , no meaning in life , it’s because they have not identified their goals in life.

And when we don’t know the values of our lives,we live with the priorities of others , instead of our own .